At i.c.stars we to find, train and put talented folks to work. We try to keep the male to female ratio pretty even. Some dynamics about the female interns have been in play since we started i.c.stars. As women we are socialized to set the table for everyone else to come and eat; we eat last without a thought; it’s how we are raised. It would be weird for us to get to the table first and ‘help ourselves’ or to just show up at dinner and ask who is cooking? We would never demand the “largest piece of chicken”. It would be very strange, we just would never do that.